Dating 3yrs...marrying the wrong sister.

Antony and his fianc� Rose have
been dating for three years.
They got engaged last year.
According to Antony, he met her
parents and two younger
brothers during the period. Her
older sister was studying abroad.
They began planning for their
wedding, which was to take place
in December. Everything was
going well until her sister flew
back home from US to help with
the wedding as the best-maid.
From then, things moved from
good to confusing for him
because from the time he was
introduced to Rose�s sister, he
was very attracted to her. And
as they continued to make
wedding preparations, his
attraction to Rose�s sister grew.
He also started to notice she was
attracted to him too. One thing
led to another and they soon
began meeting behind his fiancȒs
back.
Big dilemma
Things between him and his
fiancȒs sister have gotten
serious, that he wonders
whether he is marrying the
wrong sister.
Antony claims he is tired of
double-dealing and feels guilty
anytime he is with the fianc�. But
at the same time, he does not
know what to do because they
have invested so much money
and time into their wedding. The
families have also finalised
matters. Despite being in love
with his fiancȒs sister, he still
loves his fianc� and does not
want to break her heart. His
fiancȒs sister on the other hand
has also been making things hard
for him,, as she is tired of meeting
him behind her sister�s back. She
wants to make their relationship
official. She has moved back to
Kenya permanently and has been
asking him about their future.
Antony is wondering what to do.
My advice to Antony is that he is
making a big mistake by marrying
Rose while still dating her sister.
It is not only inappropriate but
also hurtful. If he ever felt
anything for Rose, then he owes
her the truth. When a marriage
begins on a bad foundation, it is
doomed to fail. Since he claims to
love Rose�s sister, then he
needs to tell the truth